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Should I get a new pet right away? |
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we need time to work through grief and loss to help us come to terms with
our emotions before getting another companion animal. If these emotions
are not resolved, you may find yourself resenting the new pet for seemingly
trying to take the place of the old one. Your expectations of the new pet
may be unreasonable; thus compromising both your needs and those of the
new animal.
It is also not a good idea to get a look-alike pet. Comparisons become more likely when the animal looks much like the pet that is gone. Often, getting a look-alike pet is a sign that you haven't accepted your loss and are trying to replace your pet. A new pet should be
acquired for its own sake; to be loved and accepted for its own special
qualities. When everyone in the home is ready, select an animal with which
you can build another long and loving relationship - because this is what
living with a pet is all about.
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